The RCMP had been URGING everyone to stay off the roads. Bad weather = bad roads. It was pretty much a random storm that happened out of no where.
BUT we had a funeral to go to. and it was time to celebrate a person who's heart was so large she could hug the whole world if she could. (well.. thats at least the impression I gathered she was like. A Italian.. whats not to love about Italians?)
I might have not known her.. but I've heard plenty of stories (and hopefully plenty more) and I think she has made a forever imprint on my heart and mind on a reminder of how it is I would like to treat people. Especially when I have company at my home. This lady was my boyfriend's 103 year old great grandmother..
a woman who treated everyone in her life like they were her favourite. Rosa Angela.
I heard from Nono (Rosa's Son, Aryk's grandpa) that she would make EVERYONE in the family a banana loaf of their own. (we are taking a large family here.. I'd say for sure 10 people that Nono would have to bring loafs back for if he had made the trip down by himself.) one time her and her husband made 120 crab apple pies from the tree in their yard! you would never leave her house without your belly full of food and even more food to last you about a week. At the youthful age of 90 her and her husband would go to the Old Folks home TO TAKE CARE OF THE OLD PEOPLE (how cute is that). To me it sounds like she treated everyone with love, no matter the mistakes, no matter who you are.. she'd always be willing to help you.
I'm so very grateful to have gotten the chance to go hear about this incredible person, even with the roads being black ice most of the drive (which was 6 or so hours just getting there) and many many cars/trucks/vans/semi's in the ditch. I feel lucky in the way that I got such a powerful reminder of how wonderful it is to give out love to people in your life, how much people appreciate small homemade goodies, how much people appreciate a kind soul.
(I'm also very pleased with the fact that Aryk's Dad's side of the family is so sweet and welcoming with open arms, and amusing stories. You never know when you meet someones family what they will be like! But I am now very joyous of having a loud bunch of Italians in my life. Not to mention I feel pretty special being the only girl in Aryk's life that has got to meet all these caring compassionate people)
I'm falling more and more in love with my boyfriend.. even after a funeral.. and being in a long car ride on dangerous road conditions.. I think that says a lot!
I just want to hangout with his family ALL THE TIME!! I am very excited for the future. very excited indeed!